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Wednesday, March 17, 2021

Presidential Speech 13: Sweet Friendship Refreshes The Soul

 Welcome fellow members of Friendship TMC and beloved guests. 

 

Today, we are celebrating 1 year anniversary of Movement Control Order. I wasn’t sure what goes into my mind then, I took up the role as Club President on 7 July 2021. I was the youngest Club member then. To be honest, I have absolutely no idea how to lead in this period of pandemic. To make the matter worse, the lockdown had cost me my mental health and made me doubted my own values. I still do, even up to today.

 

 The family members of Friendship TMC know this: President Alan Oh has a personal blog, dedicated specifically to his speeches and writings in his Toastmasters journey. It was not really a sexy blog, as he is not very well versed in blog management. It is more of for him to keep a record of his emotional journey as a Toastmaster. Call it a speech diary, if you will.

 

I still remember my first Presidential speech title: “Grow and Blossom”. Our goal for this term was “Better than Yesterday.” It was inspired by Keny Tai, our veteran club member. Quoting Mulan 1998, “The flower that blooms in adversity is the most rare and beautiful of all.”

 

Ever since then, I tried many genres of speeches. From stage hypnotherapy  “Begin with the End in Mind”, theatrical performance on Dracula, a historical horror speech title “The Shadow Impaler”, melancholic reflection on “Who Am I”, self-rebuke “My Commitment versus My Fear”. Not to forget the post resurrection speech “Goodbye, and Welcome.” Honestly, I would not deliver these speeches in other Clubs. I feel safe here.  

 

I take pride in every of my speech delivery. Because I know, every time I speak, something profound will change in me. Every time I write my speech, I become more aware of my emotions and my thought process. Every time I deliver my speech, I get to know myself better. Speech writing and delivery became a self-therapy process. It was introspective and liberating. Thank you so much, beloved members and guests, for you are such a wonderful audience and friend. For that, I am very grateful.

 

The Law of Precession continues to work. The ripple effects of blogging continued.  For years, Friendship TMC have a unique, unspoken sense of camaraderie among the members, which is hard to describe. It is a special tacit, undocumented knowledge of this club that builds its DNA. This blog becomes a documented, explicit knowledge of our club culture. It becomes a building block for expression of our Club vision and values.

 

Our Club motto is simple: Friends helping friends to succeed.

 

In this Club, we want our Family Members attained life successes with strong interpersonal communication and life leadership skills. They will be supported by meaningful, extraordinary Friendship throughout their Toastmaster journey.

 

In this Club, we appreciate the similarities and respect the differences among our Family Members. With this, each one of us can, and will commit to grow and learn about ourselves, helping other Family Members to do the same.

 

In this Club, we seek first to understand, then be understood. Here we are, create lasting, meaningful memories and taking delights in our Toastmasters journey.

 

In this Club, we RISE to our values: – Respect, Integrity, Sentient and Enjoyable.

 

Because of whom we are, we attracted new members, Su Ling and Sam, who shared our values despite pandemic challenge. Our Exco team is very committed to growth and serve this club. we not only achieved our DCP points on club officer training, and also received the Super Seven award from District. Oh ya, District 102 the best Blog entry award in December 2020. As a bonus and result, we are very well on our way to President Distinguished Club Award, even though DCP is not my focus at all.

 

I am very privileged and honoured to witness our Club members' life growth. They became so much “Better Than Yesterday”, proven by their speech and performance in Club contest and last meeting.

 

Our IPP, Claire, and Ying Hui, shared some of their deepest emotions with us in the last meeting. William courageously attempts a humorous speech, despite he kept labelling himself as “absolutely non-humorous” member. Kai, proven himself as an effective Club contest organizer, despite he told me: “I have nothing proud of sharing.” Le Anne went all out in contest, challenging status quo with her emotional speech.

 

Someone labelled Sam as “weak in presentation and communication.” If I were to meet that person again, I will tell him off: “You try to represent our Club in Table Topic contest.” This is not Air Asia, not everybody can fly. Not to forget Vivian, who did not have the intent to renew her membership last year, stood up and deliver her speech on organ donation with much poise and grace. Vivian, great to have you in this Club. Ya Brian and Geok Ean, I look forward to your uplevel performance tonight.

 

All these cannot happen without our family members who choose to uphold our RISE values (Respect, Integrity, Sentient, Enjoyable). Indeed, a sweet friendship refreshes the soul. Because of this Friendship, I learn much about myself. Because of this Friendship, I was privilege to witness the growth of our Club members. Because of this Friendship, we experience life successes through this meaningful and extraordinary friendship. Indeed, friends helping friends to succeed.

 

By the authority of Toastmasters International vested in me, mandate given by club members as President, having sweet friendship refreshes our souls, I declare our meeting officially starts.



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Presidential Speech 04: Be Bravely You

Presidential Speech 05: Road to Mastery
https://irondadmy.blogspot.com/2020/09/presidential-speech-05-road-to-mastery.html

Presidential Speech 07: Clarity Leads to Power
https://irondadmy.blogspot.com/2020/10/presidential-speech-07-clarity-leads-to.html

Presidential Speech 08: My Fear vs My Commitment
https://irondadmy.blogspot.com/2020/10/presidential-speech-08-my-commitment.html

Presidential Note: The Thistle and The Oak Tree
https://irondadmy.blogspot.com/2020/12/presidential-note-thistle-and-oak-tree.html

Speech Marathon: Goodbye, and Welcome
https://irondadmy.blogspot.com/2020/12/speech-marathon-goodbye-and-welcome.html

Presidential Note: Goodbye 2020, Welcome 2021 (Part 1)
https://irondadmy.blogspot.com/2020/12/year-end-presidential-note-goodbye-2020.html

Presidential Note: Goodbye 2020, Welcome 2021 (Part 2)
https://irondadmy.blogspot.com/2020/12/year-end-presidential-note-goodbye-2020_30.html

Presidential Speech 10: Bloom with Grace
https://irondadmy.blogspot.com/2021/01/presidential-speech-bloom-with-grace.html

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